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Compatibility in the Business World

Compatibility is understanding another’s energy, whether it’s the person you wake up with every morning, or the person you work with every day, or the friend you call when you have a problem. Why do we connect easily to some and not to others – ENERGY. Numerology is brilliant in unlocking that mystery.

I pulled two random charts to help you understand compatibility using fictional names. Sally contacts me and wants to know why she has problems communicating with Karen at work. Working closely together, it has made work difficult for Sally.

The first position I start with is the Heart’s Desire – this is what makes us internally happy and when happy we are motivated to perform well.

Sally has a 1 Heart’s Desire – Sally is independent, taking all problems head on intelligently, enjoying the obstacles that need to be solved. She’s hard working with a lot of energy. Sally is not a follower and is probably trying to navigate her business skills to climb the corporate ladder. Being the one in the office that comes up with multiple ideas and confidently explaining each and every one, but she also needs those people around her to help her complete them. Sally really would do well owning her own business as this is the entrepreneur energy.

Any business is blessed hiring someone with 1 energy but I would strongly suggest to Sally to be careful in how she does this as that 1 energy has a tendency to be aggressive in getting what they want. Once an idea is in her mind she is like a dog with a bone and she will keep that bone no matter who is in her way. It’s important that Sally remembers she can’t stand on the island alone and be successful. Learning patience and accepting others for what they are will speed up her advancements.

Karen has a 9 Hearts Desire. Karen works at trying to please everybody, wanting everything to be perfect. The humanitarian. Emotional, sensitive, and intuitive – a great judge of character. 9 energy is multi-talented and dreams of being on stage. Her stage is the world and she thinks big when it comes to taking care of others, which sometimes takes away from where she is at work. The 9 energy is about forgiveness and letting go – when someone holds on to things too long resentment comes forward and emotions, drama, and a very unhappy person emerges.

Sally needs to be aware that:

1. Karen thinks and makes decisions with her emotions, not the intellectual side like Sally. I think this is the biggest thing that Sally needs to understand.

2. Karen would be happiest where she is able to interact helping customers/clients through their problems. She’s intuitive and a good judge of character. A great asset to any team.

3. Karen likes things done with perfection, so does Sally, but perfection is different for each of them. One is emotional and the other analytical. One wants to be hugged and the other is alone trying to figure out a solution. That’s huge.

4. Problems need to be addressed immediately because Karen will hold onto them and resentment and drama will transpire.

My advice to Sally would be to try to respect Karen’s emotions as she can be a great asset to her and the team. Emotions are uncomfortable for Sally but that’s what Karen operates on and so do many others. If she gives Karen a chance, Karen will be able to take her to places that you she might not see or understand in the business, try to use this as a learning experience and not fight it because she can’t change that emotional side in Karen. Sally needs to be patient with Karen and compliment her when there has been good work done. Karen will thrive on that and want to continue to do good. By using the ability Sally has to address problems as soon as they arise will help Karen to not have time to mull things over in her head, as this grows and becomes a monster. I believe if Sally softens up just a bit, explains to Karen that her aggressiveness isn’t to be taking personally, that’s who she is, this relationship can grow nicely. Opposing energies in an office can be a good thing if we understand them – if we all thought the same new ideas wouldn’t emerge and grow. Remember, compatibility doesn’t mean having somebody next to you that’s completely like you, compatibility is taking the time to learn what that person’s energy is, excepting the good and understanding the not so good.  It’s easier to walk away saying “that’s just Karen being Karen.”

Are they compatible? Most definitely. It just takes understanding of the energy.

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In Other Words – One Client’s Personal Year Feedback

I reached out to a few clients to see what they learned following a Personal Year reading. Here’s what one client had to say:

“This year, 2016, I entered into a monthly reading with Sue Coffin in how my energy was going to be tested and to become aware of what transpired during the month. I have always had an affinity for numbers, scenarios, chance meetings and predictions, but I have not really put much stock them. I will never be able to clarify how it works, but fortunately Sue has become very accomplished at doing so. On or around the first of each month, Sue contacts me and we spend time discussing what I have experienced in changes, business, love, family and personal growth during the prior month. We then shift gears and Sue provides me with the number associated with the month I am entering. I love the business aspect. An example would be that in September 2016, learning new things, increase in work production and awareness of not spreading myself to thin will be paramount. I listen to Sue, jot down some basic notes and then go about my month. At the end of each month I assess what has transpired and only then do I read my notes. Amazingly accurate and even though, as of this writing, I am only half way through September, I have experienced an increase in work and learning new systems for my clients. I have given much thought to why numerology works and I have concluded that awareness of change allows me to better understand who I am and not what I am not. Some months I feel fantastic and accomplish much, and other months I am stalled out and just showing up each day. I now know that it has everything to do with my numbers. Like September is a 6 and that rates high energy. I can feel it and my mind is clear and task oriented. If I oversaw a business I would enroll my key employees into a monthly session with Sue. They might be skeptical, but after a couple of months they would be more efficient and the business would be the beneficiary. I only wish I had this information when I was first entering into the corporate world. It would have been an invaluable guide for my professional journey or at the very least provide understanding of why things happen.”

~Richard Corey

For your own Personal Year or Month reading, click here, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

A Look Inside a Numerology Reading

Curious what a Numerology reading is all about? Let’s walk through a reading with “Adam.” The first number I look at is the Lifepath. I get this number by adding up the month, day and year of birth. The Lifepath is the energy that we bring in with us at birth to help us on our journey. It’s energy that is familiar and it strongest felt from birth to late 20’s.

Think of Numerology as your GPS for life, to help you navigate life’s highway. At the beginning the road is familiar. As you continue to drive (or grow older) you hit the interstate and start seeing things you don’t recognize. During that time, you see new opportunities to explore, you meet different people. Teenage years bring on those challenges and delays, bringing in that familiar waiting in traffic because of road construction. Sometimes we take a turn and head in the wrong direction or maybe we were giving the wrong directions – this is where numerology becomes your GPS. No matter what turn we make getting back to that familiar highway (Lifepath) will help us on our journey/mission.

“Adam” has a 3 Lifepath – he has strong creative expression especially with words, and he’s drawn to writing, acting and singing. When I see 3 in the Lifepath position I think comedian. He is more than likely very playful, care free, living in the moment, and the life of the party. Luck follows him and he always believes his glass is ½ full. Adam probably has an energy level that is through the roof for most of us.

Staying on the road could be hard for Adam because society thinks everybody need to act grown up.

Adam needs to find a balance with his playfulness to a certain degree. You can’t change who you are so it will be important that he finds that career that allows all that creative expression to come forward. If he marries he needs to find a partner who will always be his audience and have the ability to keep up with his energy. He needs to recognize and acknowledge when he feels scattered, and slow down enough to ground himself. Always remember not being who you are will only intensify your underlying anxiety and bring on depression. Let that anxiety feeling be your meter showing you are not on the right track.

We all know that person in our lives with 3 energy. Encourage them to have fun, learn from their playfulness and laugh with them.

Next month we will discuss Adam’s birthday – this shows us his natural talents and abilities.

Interested in your own comprehensive reading? Click here to learn more, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

Learning What the Future Holds in a Personal Year Reading

To me, your Personal Year is one of the most important energies to keep track of. Changing every year in January, it brings in a new theme to help you advance on your journey.

A Personal Year reading will help you understand what this energy is requiring from you, so you can use it to your advantage. During a reading, I look at the energy that makes you who you are and what it is that you are here working on. How can we get the most out of this year to help you?

Keywords and themes for personal years:

1. New Beginnings

2. Cooperation, Love

3. Self-Expression, Playful, Friends

4. Hard Work

5. Changes

6. Home, Responsibilities, Marriage, Divorce

7. Knowledge, Sabbatical

8. Money, Career

9. Completion, Emotions

For example: If you have a 4 Personal Year – this year wants you to make lasting decisions and secure what you want the future to hold. A solid foundation for you and your family. It can bring in a tremendous amount of work. This might be the year you get a promotion which brings in the work. It wants you to be grounded, organize, focused and pay attention to details. Especially financial information.

Real estate transactions are supported in this energy, buying and selling a house or land, remodeling your home. Pay attention to your health as the work load can cause stress resulting in colds, flu, etc.

For some this might seem like a hard year, for others it’s enjoyable. Next year may be the complete opposite. A 5 Personal Year would allow you to make changes, have a nice long vacation, enjoy friends, and not worry about responsibilities so much.

The way to make the best out of your year is to talk with a numerologist. Discuss for 30 minutes how to take advantage of what is going to be presented to you in 2017.

Click here to learn more, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

PS: I’m going to tell you a little secret that still floors me to this day. When I started, I did readings for free for a year for the experience. During that year I read for over 100 people. All different walks of life, so much fun. The people who are returning to me today are business people. WHY? Because they have had validation in a reading and they know that this can help them advance in their careers and businesses. They stay ahead of the curve, and use the energy to their advantage. To all of us, that should prove very significant in a numerology reading.

Parents/Child Reading – Better Understanding Your Child

A question I get asked frequently is how can numerology help me understand my child?

We are all made up of different energies. Like anything, some energy works very nicely together and some clash. Within the core energy (this is the energy that makes us who we are) we can have up to 6 different ways about us.

Example: Let’s say your child’s heart’s desire is a number 3. 3 energy is very creative especially when it comes to words. Your child probably has an explanation for everything that he/she is doing especially while avoiding responsibilities like cleaning their room. Don’t ever expect the 3 to have a clean room…just saying…not gonna happen. They are full of life and playful, but being responsible isn’t natural. The 3 lives in the moment and the moment is fun for them.

Now let’s say mom or dad has a #4 heart’s desire. What makes them happy is being organized. Mom wakes up every morning and makes her “to do list” to get her through the day. Breakfast is served at 7:30 on the dot. Bags are packed for school and the kids are waiting for the bus at 8:00 – except for your number 3 who is still upstairs changing into their fourth outfit for the day. 4 is the grown up energy, always thinking ahead and doing the right thing. 3 and 4 are totally opposite.

So what do you do?

This child needs every outlet he/she can to express themselves creatively. It’s hard for them to settle down (sometimes you might even question ADHD) so give your child a chance to try multiple things before they figure out what they like, because they tend to like everything and everybody. Put them on the stage, let them dance, sing, write, create art, anything that allows them to express themselves. Remember words are important to them so expect many hours of listening to why and how they are going to do or not going to do something. Holding a 3 back and not allowing them to express themselves is detrimental to their wellbeing. Depression is common with 3 energy.

I suspect the 3 and 4 have come together to teach each other playfulness versus responsibility. Maybe the 4 can have the 3 write their do-to-list but don’t expect the 3 to follow it unless you dress them up in a costume and let them act it out. Although it would be painful for the 4 maybe a day of spontaneity would show the 3 you are trying to understand – and who knows, you might actually have fun.

If you have a questions regarding your child and would like me to answer it on my blog, please send it to healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

Follow my blogs as I take you on the journey of understanding the different energies that make us who we are. And why sometimes we get along and sometimes we have difficulties and how just knowing can take those differences and make them more comfortable.

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Cornerstone of a Name: Letter A

Just by looking at the first letter of your name explains some of your characteristics and how you approach opportunities and handle different obstacles in your life.

The letter A – These are the people that are going to make up their own mind. You can not sway them to your thinking. They are highly intelligent and always in their head thinking about there next move. Their challenge is to not be overly assertive with their words.

Curious what your name could reveal? Click here to learn more, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

In Other Words – Client Testimonial 

“Gearing up for my numerology reading, I thought Susan would give me one number and talk about a few things I already thought I knew about my Life Path. She would tell me I’m like the Empress, the third tarot card, that I’m meant to create life and nurture a big family and big art. This was only partly true. Susan surprised me with many different numbers: 3s, and 5s, and 9s, oh my! But the biggest surprise was her positive (in the sense of both ‘determined’ and ‘sunny’) advice that I don’t have to grow up.

The personality she described reminded me of the way I am around my best friends. Sadly, I realized, the person I am when I’m around my “soul family” bears almost no resemblance to the person I am on a daily basis. I’m relatively young, and I thank fate that I haven’t invested many years in living so unaligned from my soul’s purpose. How did I get so off track? The long answer is—well—long, but the short answer is that I set my compass to an external direction, not my true north.

Susan discussed writing, travel, freedom, playfulness, compassion, children, animals. She reminded me of all the Bohemian truths (true norths, for me) that had made theater and music my passions in school. The theme of constant movement shows up in a long-forgotten journal entry I wrote during a stressful period in college, in which I envision my happiest self as a particle bouncing wildly about, almost drunkenly, moving through space, encountering no obstacles.

The morning after my reading I stepped into the backyard and spied a hummingbird high in a tree. It was such a small piece of sky to happen to look at. It was the joyous, unimpeded particle of my dreams. There was nothing to slow her down. She was hot in pursuit of nectar I’m sure, and very happy about it, but I didn’t see her too long before she was gone—a small, moving window into a possible future me, who has isolated and owned my strange turn, and committed (with the special passion of one who has strayed) to my true north.”

~A Free Three

Wondering what you might rediscover in your own comprehensive reading? Click here to learn more, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

Career Choices

For those of you who don’t know me, my love for children and young adults goes very deep. I am an advocate for all children, especially the kids that are walking a hard road. We ask a lot from our young adults to decide what profession they are going to choose at a very young age. Some know early on – my older brother did and has been very happy with his choice. Myself on the other hand, I was very happy doing multiple things, at multiple times, holding on to multiple ideas. Get the picture – two very different energies!

I did a reading for a college student a couple years back. He was very confused in the direction to take. When looking at his chart I saw that he had multiple 5’s in his core energy – the energy that makes you who you are. Immediately I knew that he needed a job or career that gave him freedom. You don’t hold a 5 down. “Don’t fence me in” is their motto. I knew that learning came easy to him as 5 is intelligent and has a great memory and is very good with words. He just needed experience in the world. Sitting at school was uncomfortable for him and he felt fenced in. 5’s have very heightened physical senses and if other energies in the chart align right, it could bring in problems with overindulgence. We are talking alcohol, drugs, food, sex. When I mentioned this to him I could sense that something was already in play. I warned him that he was definitely predisposed to behavior that could cause some real problems in the future if he didn’t acknowledge this part of who is was. I could tell he understood what I meant.

After talking a little about the energy that makes him who he is we decided that a career that brought in frequent changes would suit him best. Writer (this could take him anywhere, anytime), lawyer, photojournalist, pilot, archeologist, taxi driver, motivational speaker to name a few.

He is doing well now and at this time is traveling and working odd jobs. He’s happy. This reading took us approximately 30 minutes and all I did was reiterated what he already knew deep down. In my mom voice, I let him know that constructed freedom will bring him more freedom than he knows, and that he should enjoy his life but not to a point that’s self-destructive. My reward – about a year later he wrote me to let me know he was doing much better.

Ready for your own student reading? Click here to learn more, or contact me directly at healingnumbers22@gmail.com.

Through the Eyes of a Numerologist

Sue Coffin NumerologyWelcome to Healing Numbers blog. When I researched Numerology blogs I saw that most were describing and explaining the characteristics of numbers. I will agree that is the most important part of numerology, but I want to take you deeper and let you see what I look at when I am reading a Numerology report.

Through the eyes of a Numerologist I will give examples. I will answer questions I receive. I will try to give you a better understanding of how powerful a numerology reading can be to help you understand why I do certain readings and how they can help. What I really look at and why.

We all agree that our soul has come to grow. More than likely you wouldn’t be reading this blog if you didn’t have that concept. Some souls choose to go easy and grow at a slow pace. Some choose to work very hard and grow at leaps and bounds, which isn’t always easy. My job as a Numerologist is to help each individual who contacts me to understand the energy that makes up who they are. My job is to explain to you the energy that brings in opportunities and events to help you use this in the most useful and comfortable way to help you in your journey. It is my responsibility to help you understand when to push, to be patience, to be playful, to work hard, to go on a sabbatical, to get your financial house in order, to keep your eyes open for love.

The validation of a numerology reading still amazes me to this day and I am excited to share with you… through the eyes of a Numerologist.

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